Archive for the ‘leadership’ Category

Auxiliary votes to co-host political forum

Friday, June 20th, 2008

The partnership of the Horizons program in McKenzie County and the Watford City Community Coalition asked the Forrest E. Williams American Legion Auxiliary Unit # 94 of Alexander to co-host a public political forum to be held in Alexander in September. The unit agreed unanimously during their regular meeting of June 18, 2008 to support the forum which will allow commissioners to share their positions on pressing issues, especially those that involve what makes communities thrive.

Additional Resources Available

Monday, June 16th, 2008

I’ve received three new resources for our box of resources available at the McKenzie County Library. Check out these:

Impacting Community Vitality: Software for Demonstrating
Economic Impacts of Customers CD
The “How To”: Grants Manual
See Poverty…Be The Difference! Discover Missing Pieces for Helping People Move Out of Poverty Book

Thanks to the Center for Community Vitality with the NDSU Extension Service for purchasing all these wonderful resource materials for us!

Horizons Adds Resources To McKenzie County Library

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

Horizons has added a wonderful collection of materials to the McKenzie County Library. The book titles below will address community leadership, poverty reduction, entrepreneurship and self improvement. You will find them to be inspiring, enlightening and some will also be quite humorous! A couple curriculums, DVD’s, lessons for groups, and children’s books are included. Please request the McKenzie County Horizons library to check out these books titles and other materials:

The Leadership Secrets of Santa Claus
Making Vision Stick
The Traveler’s Gift
Leadership Gold: Lessons I’ve Learned from a Lifetime of Learning by John C. Maxwell
The Quilt Makers Gift
The Quilt Makers Journey
8 Challenges Facing Community Leaders
Who Moved My Cheese?
Leadership 101: What Every Leader Needs To Know
Attitude 101: What Every Leader Needs To Know
Good To Great: Why Some Companies Make The Lead…and Other Don’t
Smart Communities: How Citizens and Local Leaders Can Use Strategic Thinking To Build a Brighter Future
The 21 Irrefutable Laws Of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You
Rural Communities Legacy + Change: Third Edition
Your Field Guide To Community Building
The Magic of Thinking Big
Blink
The Tipping Point
The Power of Positive Thinking
Leading Without Power: Finding Hope In Serving Community
Everyday Creativity: Leader’s Guide, Workbook and DVD
6 Myths About The Future of Small Towns
Better Schools Through Public Engagement
Better Local Leadership: How To Start a Program For Your Town or County
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People–DVD
Establishing A Shared-Use Commerical Kitchen
Who, Me Lead a Group?
Vision To Action: Take Change Too Curriculum
The Entrepreneurial Community: A Strategic Leadership Appraoch To Community Survival resources material
The Leader In You: How To Win Friends, Influence People and Succeed In a Changing World
Do Something In Your Community
Energizing Entrepreneurs: Charting a Course for Rural Communities
Turning To One Another: Simple Conversations To Restore Home To The Future
A Framework For Understanding Poverty
Bridges Out of Poverty
Oh, The Places You’ll Go! (children’s book)
Getting Ahead In a Just-Gettin’–By Wolrd: Building Your Resources for a Better Life
Stone Soup (children’s book)

Sharing What Works To Reduce Poverty

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

Striving to improve living conditions for families and individuals who struggle with poverty. Searching for proven or emerging approaches to reduce the numbers of people who struggle on a daily basis–long term.

These were underlying themes for the business and political leaders and nonprofit organizations and government service providers, including many Horizons program volunteers and staff who attended the Grassroots and Groundwork conference in Minneapolis May 28 to 30.

For me the experience was eye-opening and inspiring, to say the least.

One of the most interesting things I learned more about was social capital. Social capital, the relational foundation of a community, consists of trust, connections (networks), and involvement (action).

Strength of communities rests on the relationships we have with one another. Research has shown that communities with a strong foundation of trust between and among different individuals and groups are healthier and thrive economically and educationally.

These types of networks are an important part of social capital in communities:

Bonding Networks — close ties that help people to get by. These connections are usually with family, friends and neighbors.

Bridging Networks — weaker ties that can help people to get ahead and gain opportunities. These connections are usually with people who are different from themselves, who have different types of networks.

Linking Networks — Links to organizations and systems that can help people gain resources and bring about broader change. These connections are usually with organizations that have resources, both within and outside of the community.

Take a look at the social capital in your community. It will help you learn a lot about yourselves today and into the future!

Collaboration is tool of community builders

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

High on the leadership skills list is collaboration. According to Vicki B. Luther, author of Managing Collaboration in Small Towns and Neighborhoods, it is a necessity, not a luxury. Her booklet suggests a “simple approach for managing collaboration at the community level, called ARC, standing for Alignment, Relationships and Communication. The method helps analyze potential for collaboration, organize to take action, then nurtures and maintains a collaborative effort.

To sustain and improve community, ARC seeks the ways to help groups and organizations at the local level by working together.

Luther points out in bold print, “Collaboration happens when groups work together for their own benefit and for that of the community.”

The first step is to measure how potential partners might match up. Mission and membership qualities are prime considerations.

Second is the work of building relationships. Needed is a clear understanding of why the collaboration is worthwhile and which roles and responsibilities are shared and which are shouldered separately.

Trust is built over time and meeting valued expectations/goals consistently. Trust-building behaviors include following through on assignments, meeting deadlines and attaining predictable attendance at work sessions.Clarifying the relationships can be any degree of formal or informal, with either minutes of record or letters with summaries providing evidence and reiteration of agreements among the collaborative parties.

“The care and feeding of relationships must receive a high level of attention,” notes Luther.

With regard to communications: “Clear and consistent communication keeps the collaboration going strong,” adds Luther. “It’s motivational force keeps commitment in place when times get rough.”

Consider the public and private face of community collaboration and structuring messages consistently helps the information make its way back through each group, in addition to the community at large.

Luther is connected to the Heartland Center for Leadership Development, which is a nonprofit, independent organization to develop local leadership that responds to future challenges. The Center activities focus on leadership, training, citizen participation, community planning, facilitation, evaluation and curriculum development. Dr. Vicki Luther and Milan Wall earned national recognition for their landmark research, publication and curriculum, Clues to Rural Community Survival, which examines the characteristics that communities need to compete in a changing world.

These are the Heartland Center’s 20 Clues to Rural Community Survival. Recognize any of them in our McKenzie County??

1. Evidence of community pride.

2. Emphasis on quality in business and community life.

3. Willingness to invest in the future.

4. Participatory approach to community decision making.

5. Cooperative community spirit.

6. Realistic appraisal of future opportunities.

7. Awareness of competitive positioning.

8. Knowledge of the physical environment.

9. Active economic development program.

10. Deliberate transition of power to a younger generation of leaders.

11. Acceptance of women in leadership roles.

12. Strong belief in and support for education.

13. Problem-solving approach to providing health care.

14. Strong multi-generational family orientation.

15. Strong presence of traditional institutions that are integral to community life.

16. Attention to sound and well-maintained infrastructure.

17. Careful use of fiscal resources.

18. Sophisticated use of information resources.

19. Willingness to seek help from the outside.

20. Conviction that, in the long run, you have to do it yourself.

Now, if you see yourself in #20, please call me…or leave me a comment by clicking on the word comment immediately below. Thanks, Dale A. Swenson

Memorial service to honor military courage

Friday, May 23rd, 2008

There is courage in community citizenship, and then there is courage in military service. Both deserve honor, especially those who have given their lives in service.

Faith and family usually team up to formally remember ‘the fallen.’

Over 101 flags will wave from 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. in Alexander’s Park to honor the dead who have served our country. Their names are listed in the Memorial Day Service folder and their surviving family members care for their flag throughout the day, and especially following the 11 a.m. service Monday, May 26 in the Alexander City Hall. After the service, folks follow leadership out to the park for the laying of the wreath, the bugle tone of Taps and a volley of gun fire salute.

The Memorial Day program is then followed by a community potluck, supported and organized by the American Legion and American Legion Auxiliary, named in memory of World War I veteran Forrest E. Williams. The new memorial wreath to be ceremonially laid in the park, comes as gift from the Tim Dwyer Trust.

Caring to remember these veterans is important work and everyone is welcome to attend program and potluck. It is likewise important to provide care for the service members and families still living.

Therefore, the 10 members meeting as the Forrest E. Williams American Legion unit #94 planned a Yellow Ribbon and Bake Sale to be held Saturday, June 7 in Alexander’s Park during the Lion’s Club Burger’s in the Park event. Yellow Ribbon will be available for a donation, in addition to the usual baked goods. The community is welcome to also donate baked goods to the effort. Proceeds will support an emergency fund for soldiers and their families.
Poppies are available by donation at the local cafe.
New officers for the auxiliary unit will be installed at 5 p.m., June 18 in the Alexander Senior Citizen Center during the regular meeting.
Respectfully submitted,
Dale A. Swenson, Auxiliary president

Courage, Who Me?

Monday, May 19th, 2008

Courage.   Most of us think first of veterans who go to war and  people who run into burning buildings.   Maybe we think of missionaries who tackle hard problems in third world countries.   Or of giving a speech!   I thought of courage the other night when I facilitated the McKenzie Co. Horizens meeting to reduce underage alcohol consumption.   It takes courage to go public on the issue when the neighbors can tell stories on you when you were young!    It takes courage when you have a kid that is possibly bigger than you are and you have to say no!   It takes courage to disagree with your friends when they remember party fun and think you are just a spoiler.  (Do they know how “partying has changed in the last years?)   It takes courage especially if you think your kid will challenge you about your habits.   It takes courage to risk donating precious time and getting hooked into another round of meetings.   It takes courage to try to think up something you think your teens will actually enjoy instead of being bored-scarier yet- you might have to do it together!    So…if any of the above are making you grin or squirm,  you know what I mean by courage.    When you think about the poverty-making bad decisions that young people can make when they are using alcohol, a little courage is a good thing.    

Say “Yes To NO”

Monday, May 12th, 2008

We see 5000 “yes” messages everyday and that has a lot to do with why parents today have more difficulty telling their children “no” compared to previous generations, according to Michael Mann of the National Institute on Media and the Family in Minneapolis. Dr. Mann was in Williston on May 6 for the Region 1 Partners in Prevention Conference.

Whether it’s through print, radio, TV, movies or video games, the media is after us making us feel like we need more.

Our kids spend an average of 44.5 hours of their time per week in front of a screen (television, computer, handheld game, etc) compared to 28 hours per week 15 years ago.

Today 25% of our babies under the age of two years have a television in their room and 27% of school aged kids have internet in their bedroom. Our children spend twice this amount of time on the internet and go to more place we don’t want them to go than places we would like them to go.

“Children are bored in the classroom because teachers cannot entertain them like electronic media,” according to Dr. Mann.

Children and youth are growing up in a culture of impatience, a need for instant gratification and unrealistic expectations.

Self-discipline is the single most predictor for success of our children. We need to learn to say “no” to ourselves.

Teachers today spend 75 to 80% of their time and energy managing behavior.

Parents need to step up to the plate!

There are 500,000 predators on the internet at anytime.
The video game industry is bigger than Hollywood. Games with rock stars, Man Hunt, shooting, killing robots are common. Kids learn through observation and imitiation.

Video Game Addiction symptoms:
* Choosing games over most other activities
* Repeatedly breaking family rules about when and how much game playing is allowed
* Throwing temper tantrums when limits are imposed
* Falling asleep in school
* Not keeping up with assignments

Ten Steps to “Say Yes to No.”
1. Read the book–available for sale at:www.mediawise.org and learn to say no.
2. Support, don’t rescue.
3. Encourage, don’t coddle.
4. Get kids what they need not everything they want.
5. Back up teachers and schools.
6. Become a MediaWise Parent by visiting www.mediawise.org
7. Set clear and high expectations.
8. Expect kids to do chores.
9. Set and enforce clear limits and consequences.
10. Expect kids to volunteer and help others.

The Partners in Prevention Conference was sponsored by the Region 1 Prevention Program and Watford City Community Coalition.

Volunteering is what keeps us going!

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

On Wednesday April 23, Raynette Samuelson, Activities Director at the Good Shepherd Home in Watford City was hostess to a Volunteer Appreciation Tea.

Raynette planned an afternoon of delicious foods, Hawaiian coffee, music, a meaningful message from Paster Lane and fashion show provided by Meyers Clothing Store for those who donate their time and talents to the residents and staff of the nursing home. Without these people’s generosity the residents would lead a quiet life. The volunteers offer music, spiritual, card playing, bingo calling, one on one time, ethnic foods, and to many stimulating activities to name.

A big thank you to all of those who brighten the lives of others.

If you are interested in sharing your time contact Raynette at the Good Shepherd Home, 701-444-2331.

Three keys to put the lock on criminal behavior

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

Few acknowledge that underage tobacco and alcohol use are criminal behaviors. But Sgt. Bruce TalbotAnita Rhode, Facilitator taught in his Broken Windows presentation last August that the underage use creates a gateway behavior that leads people, particularly teens and young adults, deeper into the criminal life….and away from success.

Among the few are the Community Coalition and the Horizons-Leadership to Reduce Poverty groups of McKenzie County, partners in efforts to curtail behaviors that increase the chance of living in poverty. (Read ‘Rethinking Poverty’ posted by Tim Swenson.)

Mapping Successes for Our Children began with panel presentations March 31 and ended before the group of 60 participants could do the mapping for convincing youth to leave the illegal drugs alone.Attendees at Mapping Sucesses 2

On Monday, 18 people followed facilitator Anita Rohde of New Town into a 90-minute session ending successfully with a three-pronged approach to the age-old social problem:

1. Mentoring training, with partnershipsof youth and adults to be trained after the Gatekeepers of Harvey, ND

2. Monitoring and advocating for compliance checks in order to limit access to gateway drugs

3. Sponsor political candidate policy forums and offer alternate refreshments at dry bars. A homemade label on legal refreshments would bear messages supporting the better lifestyle choices for success.

“Parents, young adults and all kids need support to abstain from alcohol and drugs,” says Don Moberg of Watford City, a participant in the Mapping Successes for Our Children II session.